С какими брокерами я зарабатываю на Форекс?
Я давно уже торгую на Форекс и за 6 лет работы на рынке сменил 9 брокеров по разным причинам. Случалось у меня и у моих знакомых разное, бывало, что
- стопы мои сбивали не рыночными ценами в WHC ,
- не отдавали выигрыш — 1000 $ в FXstart. До сих пор, кстати, они работают… Чтобы вы подавились моей тыщей.
- все деньги моих друзей исчезали в никуда вместе с компанией Броко
Сейчас для себя оставил только 3 ДЦ, в которых мне больше всего нравится работать. Это:
Инстафорекс – хорошие торговые условия и безпроблемная работа уже 2 года. Мне тут нравится больше всего, что дают плечо 1 к 1000 и бонус 30% от счёта при пополнении.
Альпари – контора хороша тем, что она очень крупная и старая, я у них держу основные деньги, часть из которых вкладываю в ПАММы. Вы и сами в курсе, что у них самый крупный сервис ПАММ счетов в СНГ,
Forex4you – тут мне нравится торговать на миросчетах маленькими суммами, я тут тестирую свои новые идеи и наработки.
Кстати, и ещё! Двое знакомых работают в EXNESS . очень хвалят, тоже, вроде не плохая компания. Основное преимущество в ней в том, что там дают плечо до 1:2000 и спреды очень низкие. Проскальзывания минимальные. Сам я там деньги не держу, но о компании наслышан.
The Case For An Older Woman
As I explained a couple months ago, in Your Looks And Your Inbox the hottest girls are swamped with male attention. They get 4× the messages as the merely "average" and up to 25× as many as women at the lower end of the spectrum. Most importantly, their mean reply rate to any but the absolute hottest guys is a paltry 16% .
This information was taken from the most recent U. S. census report on marital status.
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"Women older than me keep messaging me. Sorry, but that is not going to happen." —recent feedback from a male user
The Back Story
Dating Preferences & Age
It's no secret that dating changes radically as you get older. As you can see below, the number of online daters peaks at 24, drops sharply at around 30, and then gradually tapers off, as the remaining singletons either find mates or withdraw themselves from contention:
The bar chart here shows how the woman to man ratio changes over time. As you can see, it's basically flat. In a better world, this would imply that older people don't necessarily have a harder time finding decent mates than younger ones, as the composition of the dating pool holds relatively steady from age to age. Put another way: a 45 year-old woman shouldn't in theory have a harder time finding a date than a 20 year-old, because the female-to-male ratios at those ages are equal (roughly 11:9).
Of course, we all know that 45 year-olds do have a much harder time, because the male fixation on youth distorts the dating pool . Look at how men have set their age preferences on OkCupid:
As you can see, a man, as he gets older, searches for relatively younger and younger women. Meanwhile his upper acceptable limit hovers only a token amount above his own age. a man, as he gets older, searches for relatively younger and younger women The median 31 year-old guy, for example, sets his allowable match age range from 22 to 35—nine years younger, but only four years older, than himself. This skewed mindset worsens with age; the median 42 year-old will accept a woman up to fifteen years younger, but no more than three years older.
A man's bias toward younger women becomes even more evident when we overlay his stated preferences with his actual messaging habits .
This next graph is what's called a heat map . It shows messaging concentrations by age; for each vertical age bracket, the greenest areas have the most messages, the reddest have the fewest, and the yellow have the average.
As you can see, men tend to focus on the youngest women in their already skewed preference pool, and, what's more, they spend a the median 30 year-old man spends as much time messaging teenage girls as he does women his own age significant amount of energy pursuing women even younger than their stated minimum . No matter what he's telling himself on his setting page, a 30 year-old man spends as much time messaging 18 and 19 year-olds as he does women his own age. On the other hand, women only a few years older are largely neglected.
So you can see how differently women think about dating and age, here are the corresponding charts for them:
Except in their early to mid-twenties, when they apparently want nothing to do with younger guys (i. e. guys who are still in school?), women show an admirable openness to both reasonably younger and reasonably older men. Notice also how a woman's actual messaging activity, shown in the heat map below, is roughly centered on her own age (as illustrated by the dotted "age parity" line).
This second chart also contains something very peculiar that we didn't see at all in men. Notice the vertical stripes at ages 20 and 29. These color discontinuities indicate dramatic changes in a woman's dating mentality: when a women turns 20 she decides it's okay to message significantly older men (i. e. the upper reaches of the chart suddenly become less red). At 29, a woman becomes even more open to older men and, in addition, stops writing the youngest ones. The typical 28 year-old women sends a small but significant number of messages to men too young to drink. The typical 29 year-old sends practically none.
In any event, here's what happens when we synthesize all the above data. By tallying the number of people interested in each age group and gender, we can get a dynamic picture of the dating pools. I've made a little javascript widget to illustrate what's going on.
The Shape Of The Dating Pool
a by-age distribution of men who would date an 18 year-old woman
men seeking women women seeking men
I was tempted to title this The Tides Of Longing . Move the slider to the right, toward middle age, and you can watch the pool of dating possibilities gather, crest, then drain away. Metaphors aside, we can evaluate the potential matches for a given age/gender by summing the area under the curve (AP Calculus, ftw!) I made these calculations in the chart below, and we can see that women have more pursuers than men until age 26, but thereafter a man can expect many more potential dates than a woman of the same age. At the graph's outer edge, at age 48, men are nearly twice as sought-after as women. Here's the data:
A woman's desirability peaks at 21, which, ironically enough is the age that men just begin their "prime," i. e. become more desirable than average. Following that dotted line out, statistically speaking, a woman's desirability
So that's the lay of the land, and now I'd like to say why I think it could be different. In the next three sections of this post, I will show that an older woman's attitudes, both about sex and life, are just as good if not better than her younger counterparts', and hopefully I'll convince more guys to venture north of their current age-limits:
Exhibit A
Articles touting a woman's mid-thirties "sexual peak" have stalked the pages of Cosmo since time immemorial, but these articles typically cite clinical testosterone/estrogen/progesterone studies and attempt to make the leap to "sexual peak" from there—if they bother to cite any data at all. I, on the other hand, can make my claim by looking at a woman's stated preferences:
Ideally, how often would you have sex?
age of the population
This is a nationwide "age progression" of American women, a normalized heat map similar to the ones you saw above, but with an added geographical component. By moving the slider you can watch how attitudes become more sex-positive as the population gets older.
This older-women-are-more-sexual pattern repeats across almost every proposition. Here are a few more data sets just as sparklines (computed, like the map above, for our sample set of 100,000 women). Again, these are just a handful of examples; whether we ask about bondage or kissing, women are the most sexual in their thirties.
Researching this post, I also came upon an interesting complementary pair of graphs illustrating sexual dominance preferences. Younger men want to be dominated. Older women are generally interested in doing just that.
In addition their lack of physical inhibitions, older women have much healthier attitudes in two other areas of sexual concern: STD testing and contraception.
Is contraception morally wrong?
Can it work between older woman and younger man by 20 years?
Guest
3 years ago #66
Hi Group,
This is my first post on this site.
I'm a guy ( ex military), who chased, pursued and married a much older women. She was against it to start with, but the more she tried to convince herself it wouldn't work and being worried what other people would think, the harder I chased her until she gave in.
I've read alot of of comments and some quite negative, which annoys the **** out of me, it reads like the same people that tried to break us up.
Let me tell you like it is, The older women I dated ( many years older) is now my WIFE, I own her and she owns me. I've been married to her for 17 years, and the chemistry is still intense because we set the culture of our relation from day 1 to never let it grow stale. Yes we have sex still 5-6 nights a weeks and yes she doesn't miss out ( climaxing), she enjoys her love life very much.
When she was in that stage of " I love you but concerned what other people might think" I told her straight up did I have to make her fall pregnant to prove I wanted her for life, it was then she clicked and stopped worrying about what other people say.
We dated for 6 months then got engaged, another 6 months after that we were married a week before I turned 22. And then 3 months after we got married she feel pregnant.
Long story short, I have had 4 children to my beautiful wife, the chemistry and romance is still burning very bright after 17 years of marriage and her friends at work don't refer to me as the husband but " the boyfriend" because I still treat her like her like we are still dating.
I have name tattooed on my arm. I talk dirty to her on phone when I'm away on business trips and we spend time together each week regardless of how busy we are with the kids.
To the ladies out there, I was a typical guy who found older women totally hot, I'm married to one and love being her cub toy boy. She is very confident and it drives me wild seeing a mature beautiful confident women who has life experience.
Incase your wondering she wasn't rich or anything like that just average, I am a Senior Manager in the Resource Sector and the main bread winner. My wife is at home raising the kids and that's her choice. I said that if I was going to be her husband and want a family I believed it was my duty to provide so she could focus on our family. We are equals and I never try to be domineering ( except bedroom sometimes). It's her choice if she wants to work or not and I support and love her on any decision she makes.
So all you women out there who are chasing younger guys, if your in love, happy with the arrangement then I say the best thing you can do is don't worry what these negative **** holes say. Guys know what there doing and yes older women are hot, so go for it, you will make some guy very happy. just like my wife made me. To those people out there who want to put down or create negativity with these women who find happiness with younger guys why don't you piss off, because it was typical **** like you I had to put up with 18 years that could have wrecked the magic I've had in marriage with my wife for the last 17-18 years.
It does work and yes you can have the fairy tail happily ever after ending.
Can it work between older woman and younger man by 20 years?
Guest
3 years ago #154
TO THE GUEST WHO WROTE THE FOLLOWING:
Guest
3 years ago #170
Ok..here's a real life story. My mother was 20 years older than my father. He was 21..she was 41. Now this was back in the 70's and a big no no. They pushed through societies "morals and conditioning" and stayed together. They were stigmatized just like interracial or same sex couples were. Yes they had problems (like any other marriage). They were together for 40 years until my father passed away at the age of 61. My mother..soon followed him at the age of 81.
After awhile I gave up on men. Said "forget it" and just lived my life until I met my current bf. I met him at age 39 and him 26. Due to inherent genetics (like my mother and aunt), I do look 30 yet have the experience of those of my peers. After years of him pursuing me..teaching me to trust men again, I relented and gave my heart away. We have been together for 5 years and still going strong. The only thing I get irritated about is when he leaves his clothes on the floor after work and the **** toilet seat. lol
My mom and dad had it right. It's not the age..its the love and the passion within that love. Sex goes away but love never does. Its work like any relationship but if its worth working for then love hard and strong and freely. You never know when you will die so take it day by day and be happy in the moment.
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